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Child-Centered Divorce Rosalind Sedacca offers 3 Coaching Options to
fit your specific needs: Thank you for purchasing my new book

If you're a parent facing separation or divorce ...

Don't make your children pay the price for your divorce!

Learn the mistakes to avoid -

before you make them -

for the sake of your kids!

heart-

You're facing the most difficult conversation you may ever have.

And you want to get it "right."

You don't want to hurt your children.

And there's so much at stake.

My name is Rosalind Sedacca. I've been where you are now - and I
understand how you feel. Anxious, worried ... maybe even terrified at
the prospect of talking to your kids about the changes ahead.

That's why I wrote my internationally acclaimed ebook,

HOW DO I TELL THE KIDS ABOUT THE DIVORCE?

... a Create-a-Storybook GuideTo Preparing Your Children - with Love!

Endorsed by therapists, attorneys, mediators, coaches, educators and other
divorce professionals world-wide.

At a time when it's hard to feel positive, I can show you how to create
the most positive outcome to this tough situation - for the sake of the
children you love.

Let me help you.

Dear Friend:

I never thought my marriage would end in divorce. I'm sure you didn't
either.

But mine did end more than a decade ago. And now it's happening to you.

Whether you're getting divorced or separated, it's a challenging time.
For you, your spouse, and especially for your innocent children.

I know ... because I went through it too.

I struggled with the anger, the hurt, the gut-wrenching fear, as well
as the anxiety and guilt. What's worse, I struggled with the burning
question that kept me up for weeks:

How do I tell the kids?

Are you facing the same dilemma?

Are you wondering ...

* when to break the news to your kids?
* just how you're going to tell them?
* whether to do it alone or with your spouse?

And most important of all - are you unsure about ...

* what you should say?

I've been there. And I stayed up for many sleepless nights trying to
figure out the best way to break the news. Ultimately I came up with an
innovative, yet simple new approach that was very successful for me and
the hundreds of other families that have been using it since I launched
my book.

I am excited to share this approach with you. And I want to remind you
that you're not alone.

There are answers to your questions. There's also a simple way to tell
your children in a manner that eases their pain, reassures them of your
love and helps them get through the transition that lies ahead. Best of
all ...

How Do I Tell the Kids- How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce?

doesn't just tell you what to say. It says it for you!

Let's face it, telling your children about the divorce may be the most
difficult conversation you'll ever have. Why leave it to chance?

I wrote this guidebook so you don't have to worry, spend sleepless
nights or beat yourself up about making a mistake ... saying the wrong
things ... falling apart ... or not having answers to your children's
immediate questions.

I know there are many books about children and divorce. What makes this
one unique? My innovative Create-a-Storybook(TM) concept. I've prepared
for you an actual template - the word-for-word text that tells you just
what you need to say - in age-appropriate language for children 5 to 10
or 10 to 15. And then I guide you, step-by-step, in preparing an
attractive personal family storybook, in a photo-album format, that
your children will want to read.

In other words, I don't just tell you what to say - I actually say it
for you - with love and compassion! I also include the six key messages
your children continuously need to hear, understand and accept at this
crucial time. Even if you don't purchase my guidebook, you need to make
sure you share these essential messages with your kids again and again
so that they never forget:
1. You are, and always will be, loved my Mom and Dad.
2. You are, and will continue to be, safe.
3. You are not to blame for any of this.
4. Mom and Dad will still always be your Mom and Dad.
5. This is about change, not about blame.
6. Everything is going to be okay.

No other book anywhere shows you how to create a customized storybook
uniquely about your family ... your children ... and your divorce!

The benefits for both you and your children are immeasurable.

After reading this Guidebook ...

You will feel...

* confident about how to begin, end, and know just what to say all
the way through the "divorce" conversation
* prepared to share with your children the six essential concepts
they need to understand and accept
* aware of what your children may be thinking and feeling so you can
respond accordingly
* secure, as a role-model for your children, on how to handle
disagreements and discord with dignity, integrity and respect
* proud, for the sake of your children, that you took the high road
as you venture into your separation or divorce
* empowered about conveying your message with understanding,
compassion and love
* confident you're giving your family the best possible foundation
for a healthy and harmonious future, despite your divorce
* capable of creating and maintaining a Child-Centered divorce
* ready to tell your kids about the divorce - because you will be!

You will know ...

* how to avoid anxiety, awkwardness and stumbling for just the right
words
* you have a text you can refer back to so that you stay on track -
even when emotions run high
* how to communicate in the language your children (between the ages
of 5 and 15) will understand - and appreciate
* what to expect, how to respond and be prepared with answers to
inevitable questions
* you are giving your children a wonderful storybook about them and
their family that they will want to read over and over again for
reassurance
* how to access resources you can turn to, including: articles,
organizations, attorneys and therapists, to give you additional
support in the coming months

Your kids will ...

* feel safe, loved and accepted during this difficult time in their
lives
* know and understand they are not responsible or to blame for your
divorce
* discover that change, while frightening and difficult, is
inevitable and can turn out okay
* appreciate having a storybook about them and their family that they
can read again and again for reassurance
* grasp, through text and family photographs, that life goes on from
the past into the future, and there will be many happy experiences
to look forward to ahead
* hear, and start to accept, the six key messages essential to help
them through the divorce and beyond
* avoid the anxiety and guilt of having to make choices or decisions
that are not their responsibility
* remember the respectful way you handled the challenges Mom and Dad
have been experiencing
* thank you when they grow up, as my son did, for trying your hardest
at all times to create a Child-Centered Divorce!

Why, you may ask, should I listen to you?

Who am I to advise YOU about how to tell your kids about your pending
separation or divorce?
* I'm a mother who created a unique storybook concept that worked
quite successfully with my own family! (My son, who is now a grown
young man, proudly wrote the introduction to my book.) Click here
if you'd like to read it.
* I'm a Relationship Coach, Certified Corporate Trainer and workshop
facilitator who has been providing relationship workshops for
singles, couples and numerous organizations for close to twenty
years.
* I'm the author of a new book on dating after divorce, an 8-hr Anger
Management course, several eCourses and ebooks, dozens of articles
and newsletters - as well as contributions to other people's books
- on personal, family and business relationships.
* I'm also wise enough not to be doing this alone!

Six professional Therapists share their expertise with you!

That's right. Because this is such an important message, not one or
two, but six professional therapists, experienced with divorce and
mediation, contribute their considerable expertise to this guidebook.
Their insight, advice, commentary and support add significantly to the
value of How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce? - making it a
resource you can turn to again and again in the days, weeks, months ...
and even years ahead.

Psychotherapists, mediators, divorce attorneys, coaches, educators and other
divorce professionals around the world endorse and support ...

How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce?

Clinical Psychologist, Jack Singer says ...

"Rosalind Sedacca's `How Do I Tell the Kids about the DIVORCE?' is a
much needed breakthrough in the emotional minefield that parents
traverse when they prepare their children for an impending divorce.
The template, storybook strategy sends sensitive, kind, loving and safe
messages, which every child needs as they prepare for the scary
unknown. I recommend her book for everyone who has children and is
contemplating divorce." -Jack Singer, Ph.D., Licensed Clinical &
Forensic Psychologist, Expert Witness, Custody and Family Matters

35-year therapist, Beverly Gibel says ...

"Rosalind Sedacca has made a monumental contribution to self-help
resources in an area that affects the lives of millions of men, women
and children. After 35 years of counseling people in various stages of
uncoupling, I can testify to the urgent need of a "how to" guide for
people contemplating divorce. This book offers them a "life preserver."
I have already referred my patients to this material and have received
great feedback. I cannot recommend this book highly enough." -Beverly
Gibel, LCSW, ACSW, BCD

Noted Celebrity Divorce Attorney Raoul Felder says ...

"How Do I Tell the Kids...about the DIVORCE? is unique in that it
offers parents an innovative approach to having that difficult and
usually dreaded initial conversation with their children and making it
as positive and supportive as possible. The fill-in-the-blanks
template concept is original and will be an extremely useful tool for
families during a difficult time. A parent contemplating a divorce
would be well served by reading this valuable book." -Raoul Felder,
Divorce Attorney

45-year divorce attorney Richard Kulerski says ...

"Rosalind Sedacca has just improved the lives of countless children. I
have practiced divorce law for 45 years and will attest to the
importance of how children are introduced to their parents' divorce.
How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce? gives us something simple and
sound to rely upon. There is absolutely no downside to Rosalind's
storybook concept. It's all good and it beats anything else that I've
come across. In fact, it's great and it is definitely something that
the world has needed. The book is a winner and it is also a lifesaver."
-J. Richard Kulerski, Esq

Divorce Mediator Belinda Rachman says ...

"Rosalind Sedacca has invaluable information to share with divorcing
parents. There is no other book a couple needs to help them with the
most difficult conversation a parent can have with a child, that their
parents are getting divorced. You are VERY lucky to have found my
partner in the peaceful divorce movement." -Belinda Rachman, Esq

Author and Parenting Specialist, Dr. Sally Goldberg says ...

"This hands-on interactive storybook is a must for all parents going
through a divorce. It is a step-by-step guide for appropriately
including children in the process. No parent should leave their home
without it!" -Sally Goldberg, PhD, Center for Successful Children

Author and Divorce Mediator Cynthia Tiano says ...

"Rosalind's brilliant book's non-judgmental, compassionate and
no-nonsense approach will resonate with all divorcing parents - even
those with the most challenging relationships. It is a critical piece
of the divorce puzzle, and a must read!" -Cynthia Tiano, Esq., author
Happily Divorced

Therapist and Relationship Coach JoAnn Simmons says ...

"At last! A breakthrough "hands on" divorce guidebook brilliantly
designed to help soften the divorce announcement blow for children.
This book is a MUST for any divorcing parent who wants a humanist
approach to telling their children. This book is bound to help
thousands of children." -Jo Ann C. Simmons, MA, LMHC, RCC

Psychotherapist and author, Dr. Paul Wanio says ...

"Rosalind Sedacca has put together a vital tool in helping children
(and families) through one of the most difficult times in life. Her
book, "How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce?" moves beyond a
traditional "self-help book" and becomes a real, practical, ongoing
part of a child's life. It accomplishes this by being interactive and
involving real participation by the child and other family members. I
highly recommend this as more than a book, but a tool to assist
children to more successfully navigate the disorientation and maze that
is part and parcel of divorce." -C. Paul Wanio, Ph.D., LMFT, LMHC

Psychotherapist and spiritual counselor Dr. Mathew Anderson says ...

"This book is both healing and helpful to children of divorce and their
parents. It is insightful and a particularly pragmatic, down-to-earth
tool for dealing with a terribly difficult subject. God bless you
Rosalind for writing it and also for living it." -Matthew Anderson,
D.Min., Author

Family Mediator and Psychotherapist, Dr. Deri Ronis says ...

"I highly recommend "How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce?" Its
style is non-judgmental and helpful, full of practical, easy to
understand advice that anyone can use. It is a healing balm based on
the author's own experience which is crucial to empathizing with those
going through the same experience. As a State Certified Family
Mediator and Psychotherapist, I cannot emphasize enough the importance
of having such an easy to use tool for a very challenging situation."
-Deri Joy Ronis, Ph.D.,

Success Coach Mari Smith says ...

"Rosalind, your book is sheer brilliance! How Do I Tell the Kids...
about the DIVORCE? provides a unique opportunity for families
struggling through this difficult time to create a tangible, pictorial
representation of the good times that could be a keepsake for years,
even generations, to come. Your book will surely help children of
divorced parents grow up to be more emotionally resilient adults. (I
only wish my parents had this invaluable tool for their divorce when I
was 12--I found it therapeutic to go through almost 30 years later!)"
-Mari Smith, Success Coach

And that's not all. Additional endorsements continue to come in every
day as word about this valuable guidebook keeps spreading!

Why isn't this book available in any book store?

Many people ask me about that. And the answer is simple. I'm offering
my ebook to you in digital format - as a downloadable file - for a very
strategic reason. Unlike most books, How Do I Tell the Kids about the
Divorce? was designed to be personalized - by you - for your family.
And that's best done through a simple digital download.

Your guidebook includes two fill-in-the-blank templates. One for
children aged five to ten. The other for older children up to age
fifteen. They're very easy to complete, adapt, customize and/or change
in any way that suits you and your personal circumstances. Clear
instructions guide you, step-by-step, in creating your storybook,
answering your questions section by section. And because this is a
download, you get the book right now - when you need it most - so you
can immediately begin your journey to peace of mind.

I know the template idea is really wonderful.

But the value of this guidebook doesn't stop there.

Throughout the book you'll benefit from the guidance, experience and
support of six expert professionals who take you from your first
conversation through pitfalls to avoid, and signals to pay attention
to, in the weeks, months and even years down the road.

The advice of my expert contributors will provide additional insight to
help you create the storybook that best suits your children and your
family. You'll also find lots of suggestions about how to add your own
individual touch to the style, design and format of your storybook -
from the most basic approach to turning out a highly creative work of
art.

While there's no right or wrong way to make your storybook, you can be
totally confident that it will convey the right message you want to
give to your kids!

Order your ebook now

and take advantage of $146.00 worth of free bonuses!

How Do I Tell the Kids-

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How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce?

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Strategic questions will guide you in discovering and responding to
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Sincere best wishes to you and your children,

Rosalind Sedacca, CCT

The Voice of Child-Centered Divorce

Author, How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce?

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